Wednesday, 11 December 2013

What To Wear To A New Year's Eve Party | An Embellished Cocktail Dress

Bastyan Arin cocktail dress with deep V back
This is the third in my series of What To Wear To A Christmas Party posts - and as 2014 is just three weeks away, I thought I'd show a glamorous look suitable for a New Year's Eve cocktail party!

I was contacted by London based brand Bastyan to choose and style a dress for a festive party - they sell beautifully tailored, structured pieces that are all about ageless style and quality. I chose the form-fitting Arin embellished deep V back dress in Oyster grey - and it fits like a glove. It has the most beautiful diamant√©, bead and chain embellished low cut back; I was a bit worried it would be too low, but it was in fact perfect (there's no way I'm a girl who can go without a bra, as you can probably tell from these photos)! There's also a clever concealed zip at the back of the hem which makes the dress a whole lot easier to walk in (I kept it zipped up for the photo shoot).


So as the star of the show was that embellished deep V back, I kept the jewellery simple - crystal drop earrings and a few bracelets - and I wore my studded black heels to echo the back detail of the dress. There are lots of box clutches in the shops right now, and my black and white horse print clutch is the perfect contrast to the grey of the dress without detracting any attention from it. The look was just crying out for some black and white photos as I felt more than a little red carpet-ready wearing it - the Arin dress would be more than worthy of an event like that (you'd have to practice the "looking over your shoulder" pose for the paps)! This is the perfect time of year to splash out on a really special dress if you're able to, so go for a classic style that has some sort of interesting detail to it. I think I've found my outfit for the post Christmas party I've recently been invited to...!


Bastyan Arin cocktail dress, grey
Grey cocktail dress, black & white print clutch
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Bastyan Arin Oyster dress
Bastyan Arin cocktail dress with deep V back
[I have to mention: With a dress like this you must wear Spanx. Unless you're an Olympic gymnast, there is no way you can wear a light-coloured, fitted dress without smoothing underwear. Bodycon dresses are unforgiving and you want all the attention on your beautiful dress, not your wobbly bits. I may be quite fit and reasonably in shape, but before I'd put on my magic knickers my reflection was not very kind to me - gravity takes its toll after the age of 40, no matter how fit or slim you are! So shapewear is not for "sucking it all in"; it's designed to create a smooth silhouette. Always, always get the ones that come halfway down your thighs - like these Spanx - or you'll still end up with VPL. Without them the back of your dress will still get a lot of attention, but for all the wrong reasons!]
Catherine x
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Shop my look! I've picked out some of the most beautiful party dresses from Bastyan (including mine in the middle!) and a gorgeous selection of box clutches as mine's sadly no longer available...

Dress: c/o Bastyan, Bag: c/o French Connection, Heels: New Look (old), Earrings: Unknown (similar - US shipping; similar - UK shipping), Bauble ring: Debenhams, Fingertip ring (set): Asos, Bracelets: H&M / Debenhams / New Look, Watch: Debenhams (similar), Nails: Nails Inc Limited Edition





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43 comments

  1. Yes, beautiful dress, and a lovely choice!

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  2. This is such a classy and sophisticated dress, I love how the detail is on the back. This look is so well put together, the sparkly nails are a nice touch! BEAUTIFUL! x

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    1. I can always rely on you when it comes to dresses, Sacramento!! Thank you xoxo

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  4. Wobbly bits .. tee hee .. I thought that was funny ;-)

    Lovely dress .. not a style I can squeeze into .. spanx or not.

    Monica, www.pear-shaped-gal.com

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    1. Most of us have them, Monica!! ;))

      Thank you, I'm glad you love the dress - though there are styles that look hideous on me, even though I love them. We all want what we can't have, sadly...!

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  5. I've got a couple of dresses from Bastyan and they are a joy to wear. I'm sure you'll be the belle of the ball in yours!

    Emma x

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    1. Ahhh you're a Bastyan girl too, Emma! Yes I was really impressed with the quality - especially with this type of fabric - if it were poorly made it would really show. But luckily it was a beauty, inside and out!! Thanks hun x

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  6. Drop dead GORGEOUS, Catherine. I LOVE the 50s classic glam silhouette vibe this gives me.

    Terry
    http://terrystwocents.tumblr.com

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    1. WOW now that's one of your best ever compliments, Terry!! Thank you so much!!

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  7. Stunning! I absolutely love the details on the back neckline...and of course the fitted shape is perfect on you!


    Natasha ~ TashaDelrae.com

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  8. Such a glam look! I love it!

    Emma x
    http://www.beautyandrags.co.uk

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  9. Whit woo! this is a gorgeous and classy look, I like the fact that the embellishment is on the back, makes it more unusual and also this is a really great colour that'd be perfect to wear to weddings too.
    http://ahandfulofhope.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. Gosh yes I didn't think about weddings - it would be perfect! So glad you love it - thanks Helen!

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  10. So lovely, Catherine!! This dress was the perfect choice; everything - from the colour, to the embellishment, to the deep "V" back - says "special occasion!!" And the hidden zippered slit is just ingenious!! Finally, I can't NOT mention the clutch with the horse motif...what a great conversation piece!!

    www.StyleIsMyPudding.com

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    1. It's such a shame it's not available anymore, Monika [the clutch] - I scoured the interwebs but all gone sadly. Thank you for your lovely comments as always, sweetie!!

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  11. Catherine, this is a stunning look. You would star in any party you wear this at. The dress fits you like a glove!! Love it all.

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  12. WOW, that dress is stunning on you! Great post and thanks for including the Spanx info :)

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  13. Glamorous dress that's also so wearable, Catherine. You look stunning! xox

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  14. I love Tonia Bastyan's chic elegant dress designs, and this is a stunner!! love the embellishment on the neck line. Its a great look - I also like your heels and the glittery NP :0)

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  15. You look stunning. Sigh...I really need to get into shape now!

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  16. catherine! you look so dang stunning I had to pin some pictures from this post! that v back and perfect fit dress is beyond amazing! you seriously look so stunning!
    kelseybang.com

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  17. This is so pretty. Hmmm, I'm wondering if a low back dress could be layered over a sequin to for a similar look???

    www.dressupnotdown.blogspot.com

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  18. Girl - I love that plug for spanx - you are speaking my language!

    And can I just say - your bum looks ah-maz-ing in that dress! Bravo. love it!

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  19. Your figure is amazing, Catherine and I firmly believe it wouldn't be any different without shapewear (which I am a great fan of myself!)
    Silver grey isn't easy to wear in winter but for you and your hair it is absolutely stunning!
    Love it!

    xo
    Annette | Lady of Style

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  20. Looking great chick, I don't believe you need spanx!
    Lauren
    livinginaboxx

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  21. wow you look amazing as always! i love the plunging neck at the back rather than the front, just low enough to still be able to wear a bra. How people can go bra-less is beyond me! I've worn spanx tights once or twice and I'm 16 haha, found them kinda uncomfortable though! Have fun partying, make sure you go crazy ;D
    lily x
    www.jolihouse.com

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  22. Wow, this dress is amazing. Like this you gonna be the star on new years eve.

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    Kiss, Selina & Olivia, The RedViolet
    www.theredviolet.blogspot.com

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  23. Those sweets look amazing!! I absolutely love your dress, it’s so perfect!!

    http://www.jollychic.com/?a_aid=SIRIUSIT

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  24. Very chic, but looking at you made me feel very cold. Can't you at least put on tights? Brrr. Beautiful but brrr.
    Greetje

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  25. You look absolutely gorgeous ! Love everything, your dress, your hair and also the accessories !

    Fashion and Cookies

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  26. Thanks for sharing the glam with Visible Monday, Catherine! xox

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  27. Gorgeous dress and I'm in love with that clutch!!
    Walkinginmemphisinhighheels.com

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  28. I love this dress! and you are gorgeous, following this blog now!

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  29. What a gorgeous dress!! Loved all your accessories too.

    Have a great week!

    -Jenny
    http://www.babblingsofamommy.com/2013/12/get-look-reese-witherspoon.html

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  30. That dress is stunning and classy!! I'd definitely love to have a party to wear it to!

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  31. That dress is beyond fabulous. The details are stunning. Off to pin it now!

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  32. Wow. If my butt looked like that, I'd feature it first as well.
    Seriously ... just beautiful!

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